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Sticks and stones

Something terrible had just happened.  It was in a note that a ā€œfriendā€ passed along to me from another ā€œfriendā€. In the note, was written a word. A word I'd never seen before. My instinct also told me it was a name. A bad name. This friend had just called me a name. Whoever came up with the saying, ā€œsticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt meā€ was a liar. Even though I wasnā€™t familiar with the word, I knew it was meant to hurt me. And that word was a stone. That happened when I was in the seventh grade and I remember it like it was yesterday. It was the beginning of a career of bullying from this so-called friend and it lasted throughout all my following school years until I graduated high school. I cringe even now as I type this.  The girl who bullied me, stalked me, harassed me, and called me names, made my life miserable by casting stones my way. Iā€™m not writing this to make you feel sorry for me. Iā€™m writing this because it has made me aware of...